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The Danger of a Dream Deferred
The most dangerous thing you can do... is nothing about your dream


Now listen here, baby.
This one’s not gonna be easy to hear — but you didn’t sign up for fluff.
You signed up for truth. And that’s what Mama gon’ give you.
I know you got dreams.
Real ones.
The kind that keep tapping you on the shoulder in the middle of the night.
The kind you try to silence with responsibility, routine, and reasons that sound good — but don’t feel good.
And every time you say “Not now”…
That dream doesn’t die.
It just waits.
Quiet. Patient.
Until one day, it doesn’t knock anymore.
The Real Risk:
You think the danger is in trying and failing.
But no, baby.
The real danger is never trying at all.
Because when you don’t follow your dream:
You start resenting the life you built for everyone but you.
You wake up tired even after a full night’s sleep — not from work, but from misalignment.
You start shrinking your hope just to make your current life feel “good enough.”
And worst of all?
You teach the people watching you — your babies, your friends, your circle — that settling is acceptable.
And let me tell you, Mama ain’t here for no generational regrets.

Mama’s Storytime:
There was a season in my life — and I remember it clear as day — when I buried my dream so deep, I didn’t just forget what it looked like...
I forgot it belonged to me.
I was in my 30s, newly married, raising babies, working a job that paid the bills but starved my spirit.
And every now and then, that old dream of mine — that one I had since I was a little girl writing poems in the back of church bulletins — it would whisper to me:
"Remember me?"
And every time, I’d hush it.
"Not now. The kids need me."
"Not now. We can’t afford to take a risk."
"Not now. I’m too old to start over."
"Not now. It’s just not the right time."
But baby, let me tell you something:
There is no “right time” to live a life that belongs to you.
There is only now… or never.
And the longer I waited, the heavier my days became.
It wasn’t depression — not the kind they talk about in books.
It was something more subtle.
Like watching a beautiful flower slowly stop blooming…
because nobody watered it.
That flower was me.
I remember sitting at the kitchen table one night after everyone had gone to bed. The house was quiet.
And I just sat there, staring at my hands — these hands that had cooked, cleaned, typed, folded, held, comforted, served everybody else’s needs…
But hadn’t held my own dream in years.
And I cried.
Not from sadness…
From recognition.
From the weight of knowing I’d been ghosting the very thing that gave me life.
So I made a promise that night.
I said:
“Lord, if You give me just one more shot — I’ll say yes.
I don’t care how late it feels. I don’t care if I’m scared.
I’ll say yes to me.”
And that, baby?
That was the night I started writing again.
That was the night Mama Keys was born.
Not the public version. Not the polished one.
But the woman who said:
“No more living quiet in a world that needs my sound.”
So if you’re reading this and you’ve been sitting on a dream…
Let me be the mirror today:
It’s not too late.
You’re not too old.
You haven’t missed your moment.
You’ve just been waiting for permission.
And now — Mama’s giving it to you.
Write the book.
Start the business.
Build the brand.
Heal the wound.
Tell your truth.
Because you are not just here to exist.
You are here to ignite.
Mama’s Soulwork:
Finish this sentence three times:
“If I really believed in myself, I would…”
Don’t edit. Don’t shrink. Just write.
And then ask yourself:
What’s the cost of not doing it?
Not just to your bank account — but to your soul.
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“Dreams don’t expire — but the version of you that keeps ignoring them? That version’s on borrowed time.”
Charlie says this:
You don’t need to quit your job to start your dream — but you do need to quit waiting on perfect conditions.
Start with what you got.
Start scared.
Start messy.
But start — because every day you delay is a day your dream ain’t helping nobody.
And dreams weren’t meant to be pretty thoughts —
They were meant to be impactful realities.
Mama’s Final Word:
You weren’t sent here just to pay bills and be polite.
You were sent here to shift something.
To birth something.
To become something the world didn’t even know it needed.
And baby, you still got time.
But you don’t got time to waste.
So this week, I’m asking you to do one bold thing —
not for likes, not for applause, but for your legacy.
Your dream is calling.
And this time?
Answer.
With love, truth, and a push toward purpose,
– Mama Keys
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